"Unless someone sees and hears you, how do you know you exist?" Meanings of confidential conversations - a hermeneutic study of the experiences of patients with palliative care needs.

Patients value trust and understanding, particularly in confidential conversations with nurses, which offer solace, validation and empowerment. However, indifference can increase patients' suffering, fostering self-doubt and reluctance to engage further. To address this, health care can prioritise empathic communication skills, offer ongoing support to nurses, and promote continuity in care through investment in training and resources. Additionally, adopting a person-centred approach in confidential conversations is crucial, considering patients' varying preferences.