Only too often, it is automatically assumed that dental checkups or treatments are avoided by a subset of the patient population out of fear. To put it more correctly: to avoid the anxiety associated with dental appointments - anxiety believed to be based on fear of pain and pain increase. Following this assumption, three other subtypes of avoidant patients are being overlooked. These are care-avoiders with fear caused by trauma, self-effacing behavior or depression. Well-informed questions can initiate an understanding conversation which can break and stop this care-avoiding behavior. Patients can be referred to the general practitioner (formental health care), or to special dentistry, in more complex cases.